Why can't we be friends

The words girls never want to hear. "We can still be friends". But here's the deal. Why can't you still be friends?  I know, you think it'll get to complicated or it'll just be awkward, but truth is after some time being friends is a great possibility if you just put forth a tiny bit of effort. Here's the bottom line. A relationship should be two best friends that hold hands and kiss. So now you should just be taking out the holding hands and the kissing and the dates.

I know you girls are thinking, "what does she know"  and "its not that simple". But the thing is I do know. I just went through it. And with effort and some time, we're gonna be back to normal as friends. If you can't be friends after a relationship then in reality, your relationship wasn't worth the time.

Talk to your ex, ask about his/her life, show some interest in whats going on even though you aren't going out anymore. This little act of caring will be the first step into becoming friends again. If you were the one who was dumped then this is great because you're being the bigger person. So go ahead. Try it.

XOXO love always,
M.